Create a Safe Space

This is not something new. Our School Library has always been a safe space for kiddos of all kinds. Our wonderful Middle School community is a rich tapestry of many woven threads, rich colors, diverse backgrounds, orientations, expressions, many abilities and kids from many lands speaking many languages.

Laurel, Maryland is right smack dab between Washington DC and Baltimore - it's like our school has always been a mini United Nations. I love that about us! And our School Library has always enjoyed being a draw and a safe landing spot for kids who are quirky, nerdy, bookish, geeky, techie, queer, gay, trans, wordy, dramatic, creative, alternative, and cool.

That's why I thought it was important and reassuring to have a sign that proclaimed that we are a Safe Space or a Safe Zone right on our front doors and right by our check out desk!

What is a Safe Space? According to the Safe Space Network, “A Safe Space is a place where anyone can relax and be able to fully express, without fear of being made to feel uncomfortable, unwelcome, or unsafe on account of biological sex, race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, cultural background, religious affiliation, age or physical or mental ability.”

"K-12 schools have long served as a safe space for students. Whether a student is escaping abuse at home, discrimination due to sexuality or race, or overcoming trauma, teachers and schools regularly provide much more beyond academic learning. They also offer therapy, support, and a place of refuge for many, which makes learning possible. Looking at schools as safe, inclusive spaces helps prepare young people for our diverse world, giving them a sense of belonging and support so that they’re able to face life’s challenges in healthy ways." - Concordia - Portland University

This space welcomes and respects ALL people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. We believe that all persons regardless of race, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression should be treated with dignity and respect
Kindness matters.

The fact that I also found a rainbow narwhal with a glittery horn made it extra and spiffy!

SIDENOTE: Oh and, dear reader, though I maintain two blogs (this professional blog and my Daring School Library Edublog) I don't usually post the same things there that I do here...because that one is for my kids and the community and this one is hopefully a helpful blog journaling my professional tips, tricks, wins, fails, thoughts, and resources. But THIS post I felt was important enough to have both places. See?

What does it mean to be an Ally? What does it mean to have a Safe Zone or a Safe Space? I found a great resource from the Human Rights Campaign website: 

What is an Ally?

"In the most general sense, an "Ally" is "a person who is a member of the dominant or majority group who works to end oppression in their personal and professional life through support of, and as an advocate for, the oppressed population."

Allies to racial, religious and ethnic minorities have been remarkably effective in promoting positive change in the dominant culture, and only recently has their instrumental position been extended to the area of sexual orientation.

In recent years we've seen more and more LGBTQ Ally organizations strive to make the culture of a campus or workplace more aware and accepting of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and queer individuals

An Ally strives to... 

• be a friend

• be a listener

• be open-minded

• have their own opinions

• be willing to talk

• recognize their personal boundaries

• join others with a common purpose

• believe that all persons regardless of age, sex, race, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression should be treated with dignity and respect

• recognize when to refer an individual to additional resources

• confront their own prejudices

• engage in the process of developing a culture free of homophobia, transphobia and heterosexism

• recognize their mistakes, but not use them as an excuse for inaction

• be responsible for empowering their role in a community, particularly as it relates to responding to homophobia or transphobia

• recognize the legal powers and privileges that cisgender straight people have and which LGBTQ people are denied

• support the Ally program of their university or workplace

• commit themselves to personal growth in spite of the discomfort it may sometimes cause As important as it is to define what an Ally is in a positive sense, it is also helpful to understand the boundaries of an Ally's role.

An Ally is NOT... 

• someone with ready-made answers

• necessarily a counselor, nor are they necessarily trained to deal with crisis situations"

Want this poster for your school library? Copy it from my GSuite Drive or download it from my Slideshare below!

One of my wonderful 8th graders told me about this super reading list available at the Howard County Public Library, and he brought me one! Sadly, they don't have the same list online, can't figure out why not (backlash?) How hard would it be to cut and paste it and put it online?  I would share it with you here if it was available online, because it's a great list!

I Tweeted asking if it's available, the answer is below

Related Posts & Resources: 

Dear Queer Teen - It Get's Better!

Great resources from The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN):

Download this FREE PDF!  Safe Space Kit - GLSEN

Safe Space Kit in Every Ohio School | GLSEN

GLSEN Safe Space Kit: Be an ALLY to LGBTQ Youth!   

5 Reasons Why Safe Spaces Are Important On Campus

More Than a Safe Space - Educational Leadership - ASCD

For LGBT Students, Are 'Safe Schools' Enough? - Education Week 

Opening the Doors to Learning Through Safe Spaces in K-12 Schools


  1. Hi Gwyneth! This is my first time checking out your blog and I love it! As a student in a Teacher-Librarian course, there are so many amazing resources here. I particularly enjoyed this post. I agree that school libraries have long been safe spaces for many students (geeky, techy, etc) and it's great that libraries are now reminding students of the importance of being an ally to LGBT students. I have long considered myself and ally and try to lead by example at school. I have a close and visible friendship with a non-binary teacher at my school, and I hope that when students see this, they can feel comfortable being allies too.

    1. Hey there, Anon.Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment. It means a lot to support all our kids and school team members -you're making a difference! I think we both believe that schools should be a safe place to be their authentic selves. Keep being awesome! If you ever want to contact me my email is on the contact me page of this blog - or you can connect via Twitter & Instagram - I'd love to part of your PLN! Just reference this comment so I know it's you! Cheers dear! ~Gwyneth


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